🫶🏽 The War of Words Isn’t Helping Us 🫶🏽
Kat Kat

🫶🏽 The War of Words Isn’t Helping Us 🫶🏽

We’re living in a divided culture—

but sometimes, it’s not just the beliefs that divide us.

It’s the way we treat each other the moment we disagree.

You’ve seen it.

Maybe you’ve done it.

I have, too.

A stranger posts something we don’t like, and suddenly it gets personal…

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🌹 Gender is More Than Genitals: A Kid-Friendly (and Body-Wise) Explanation 🌹
Kat Kat

🌹 Gender is More Than Genitals: A Kid-Friendly (and Body-Wise) Explanation 🌹

For the young ones—and the grown-ups learning, too.

Let’s start simple:

🩵 Your body parts do not tell the whole story of who you are.

When you’re born, a doctor usually looks at your body and says,

“This is a boy!” or “This is a girl!”

They’re making a guess based on what they can see.

But who you are?

👉🏽 That’s something bigger…

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Fear Mongering and the Cult of Division
Kat Kat

Fear Mongering and the Cult of Division

Sometimes it’s not subtle.

Sometimes it’s loud and vicious—

and it’s right there in plain sight.

Trump’s Easter post told us everything we need to know about his tactics:

“Happy Easter to all, including the Radical Left Lunatics fighting to bring Murderers, Drug Lords, Dangerous Prisoners, the Mentally Insane, and Wife Beaters back into our country…”

Instead of a message of hope or unity, he delivered a tirade of fear and hate—on a sacred day meant for renewal.

Psychological breakdown:

This is a textbook fear tactic…

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🤎 Parenting as Repatterning 🤎
Kat Kat

🤎 Parenting as Repatterning 🤎

(Meeting our inner child, too.)

No one told us that parenting would be less about having all the answers—

and more about hearing all the echoes.

Of our own unmet needs.

Of the tone we feared.

Of the silence we craved.

Of the safety we never had.

Because parenting doesn’t just shape our children.

It stirs up the ghosts of who we were.

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Body Alchemy for Heavy Days
Kat Kat

Body Alchemy for Heavy Days

Hey, love—yes, you.

A soft reminder, soul to soul:

Your experience is real.

It doesn’t need to be validated to be true.

And when the world feels heavy or your edges feel tight,

there are simple, sacred ways to come back home to yourself.

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🌿 Legacy of Love No. 11: Rupi Kaur
Kat Kat

🌿 Legacy of Love No. 11: Rupi Kaur

Because the body remembers, and poetry lets it speak.

Rupi Kaur doesn’t need a thousand words to say something holy.

She crafts softness with edge,

turns silence into syllables,

and gives the wound a name you can whisper to yourself in the dark.

She showed the world that healing can rhyme,

that trauma can be translated,

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✨You Were Meant To Be Here.✨
Kat Kat

✨You Were Meant To Be Here.✨

Take a moment.

Close your eyes.

And feel into the incredible, wild, improbable story that led to you.

The decisions.

The accidents.

The love stories, the heartbreaks, the wars, the crossings of land and sea—

The prayers whispered in languages you may never speak,

but still feel echoing in your bones…

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Legacy of Love No. 10: Dr. Fei-Fei Li
Kat Kat

Legacy of Love No. 10: Dr. Fei-Fei Li

Because intelligence without care is not wisdom—and innovation without Earth is not future.

Dr. Fei-Fei Li is a rare kind of architect.

Not of buildings, but of vision.

Not of machines, but of possibility.

She stands at the crossroads of artificial intelligence and the human soul—

and she chooses care…

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From Meltdowns to Miracles
Kat Kat

From Meltdowns to Miracles

(Listening to the Language of Every Nervous System)

Parenting isn’t one-size-fits-all.

Neither are nervous systems.

And yet… so much of the world still treats kids like they should all learn, play, speak, and feel the same way.

But neurodivergence is not a flaw—it’s a spectrum of humanity.

A rainbow of rhythm, regulation, and response…

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How Thrift Shopping Helps Us Resist the Impact of Tariffs (and Capitalism’s Bait)
Kat Kat

How Thrift Shopping Helps Us Resist the Impact of Tariffs (and Capitalism’s Bait)

Let’s talk about something tender and powerful, friends — resourcefulness as rebellion.

In a moment when tariffs are making essentials more expensive, when corporate greed is spiking prices and calling it “growth,” and when the systems around us push us toward buying more and being less… we get to slow down, soften, and subvert.

Thrift shopping isn’t just cute vintage jackets and funky mugs.

It’s circular economy…

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Religion and Othering Culture
Kat Kat

Religion and Othering Culture

There are individuals preaching fear-based religion through megaphones downtown in my local community.

“Repent your sins”

“Do not remain silent about homosexuals”

My heart feels the familiar ache of grief for the impacts of this targeted hatred.

I want you to know:

If you don’t fit the mold they preach for others to match, you are not the problem.

Read that again:

You are not the problem…

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🌿 Legacy of Love No. 9: Dr. Kate Marvel
Kat Kat

🌿 Legacy of Love No. 9: Dr. Kate Marvel

Because truth can be tender—and science can speak like a prayer.

There are people who yell to be heard.

And then there are people like Dr. Kate Marvel,

who speak with such clear, rooted truth

that the whole room leans in to listen…

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🌸 Raising Whole Humans vs. “Good” Kids 🌸
Kat Kat

🌸 Raising Whole Humans vs. “Good” Kids 🌸

(A love note to the wild ones and the ones raising them)

Let’s talk about this word:

“Good.”

It’s been showing up a lot lately…

in praise, in fear, in generational echoes.

“Be a good girl.”

“Act like a good boy.”

“That’s not what good kids do.”

But here’s the spell we’re breaking…

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